5 Types of Toxic People You Should Eliminate From Your Life

You become the people you hang out with the most so quit hanging out with dopey people.
Sounds easy right?
But it’s not if you want to be successful in life if you want to be happy you need to be very deliberate with who you let into your life.
In particular there are five people who you should remove from your life right now.
First you have to cut out the Downers write the negative people
Second you have to cut out the distractors third
you have to get rid of people who play the victim
Fourth you have to stay away from know-it-alls you know who I’m talking about those
people who never let you forget your past mistakes and are always the first
to tell you about everything that can go wrong.
Fifth and finally please dump the drama queens they’re awful.
ok so good and bad behavior is contagious
“One study found that emotions circulate through social networks just like the flu virus these patterns can actually be tracked numerically”
Each positive person you surround yourself with increases your chances of being
positive by eleven percent but it’s negative person you let into your life
more than doubles your chances of being negative
so why does this happen interacting with other people in gauges your mirror
neuron system a mirror neuron is a cell in your brain that fires both when you
act and when you observe another person acting this system makes you copy other
people whether you want to or not
if you spent if you spend enough time with anyone no matter who it is
you will start to mimic their behavior this means you need to start cutting
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negative people out of your life right now
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here are five people you should start avoiding number one the downer
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look some people can walk into a room and light it up
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other people walk into a room and kill it downers are those that kill positive
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energy
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they are those people who seem to have a dark cloud following them wherever they
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go
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these people are unlucky negative and always depressed
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don’t feel bad for these people odds are they like being miserable
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they liked the attention it gives them so I they are you saying I should just
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drop unhappy people from my life
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oh yeah your happiness and even your physical health depends on it
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research shows that being exposed to negative people pills away neurons in
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your hippocampus the part of the brain responsible for problem solving this
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means that negative people
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downers they literally rot your brain so stop hanging out with him
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stop hanging out with people who suck away your energy second start avoiding
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distracting people distractors come in a variety of flavors there are those
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annoying people who drive you nuts and who make you focus on them and what they
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are doing
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instead of focusing on yourself in your mission and there are also those are
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people that are amazing or or really hot or brilliant those people who catch your
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eye for one reason or another and make you forget about your goals and
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everything that you’ve set out to do with your life
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a lot of promising futures have been sacrificed to these distractors some
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people drop out of school or quit a job they love just to be closer to a
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distracting person to stay in that distracting relationship
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others get hooked on celebrity gossip or get learned to get rich quick schemes
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look everything that glitters is not always gold most shiny things are just
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distractions and this can include people so don’t let an amazing person make you
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forget that you are amazing too
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and that you have something amazing to offer the world third
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stay away from people who play the victim don’t know how to identify a
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victim
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here’s what you look for look for people who preach self-sacrifice look for
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people try to make you feel guilty for your strength or who try to make you
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feel guilty for your accomplishments and finally look for people who try to make
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you feel bad just because they are feeling bad
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victims are masters of positioning themselves on the moral high ground and
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using obligation to manipulate you into doing what they want you to do
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be especially cautious of people who try to make you feel responsible for their
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happiness
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no one is responsible for someone else’s happiness forth
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stay away from know-it-alls know-it-alls are those people who will never let you
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live down past mistakes or the past low position that you once held in life
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these people try to bring you down by tapping into to psychological phenomenon
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impostor syndrome and negativity bias impostor syndrome is characterized by
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the inability to internalize your own accomplishments is that voice in your
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head that creeps up every now and then telling you that you’re a phony and it’s
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only a matter of time until people find out
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negativity bias on the other hand refers to your brains preference for negative
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information / positive information
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ok so don’t let some know-it-all use these forces against you to hold you
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back in life or to make you feel bad about yourself instead keep moving
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forward focus on where you are now and where you are headed
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not on your past mistakes fifth and finally do me a favor once and for all
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and refused to be around drama queens or drama kings
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actually I’m gonna call drama Kings drama queens as well
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ok they’re all drama queens drama queens are those people who love conflict they
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are addicted to drama and to winning arguments
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no matter the cost even if there’s nothing to be one drama queens love
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drama for the sake of drama
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they don’t want to win or find a solution they just want the drama
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their minds are simple and their lives are boring so the only way they can feel
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a sense of purpose in life is by creating you guessed it
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drama don’t let these people suck you into their drama
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any time you spend trying to correct or even understand a drama queen is a waste
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of time
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you are better off ignoring these people all together do this and you’ll live a
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more confident and focus life until next time
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live like a lion

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